Want to Outshine Everyone Else Around? We Tell You How!

“I don’t like becoming the center of attraction” - People who say this are either lying or suffering from a serious psychological problem. Even the most shy person who sits alone in one corner of the party room longs for attention. In fact, we all put in our best efforts to compete with the herd of people around and look different and better (maybe best is the right word). But, not all our efforts work well and we are again lost somewhere in the crowd.

Well, we are not giving a magic wand that would turn all the eyes in the party towards you but yes here are a few things you can count on to stand out in a room full of people.

1. Make Sure You Look Classy & not Kooky.

Your dressing style can definitely turn the heads around but don’t forget to check whether they are laughing or admiring. While making efforts to look cool, many a times people end up looking a fool. So, before you step out of your home check your outfit twice. It should be just elegant, stylish and comfortable to carry.

     2. Wear a Bright Smile.
Everyone in the party has come to relax and your low-spirited attitude would push them away. So, if you really wish to enjoy the party by getting maximum attention keep smiling. On entering the room, greet the host and other guests warmly. Surely, everyone likes to be with jolly people.

    3. Show Them your Sense of Humour.
People cracking irritating jokes are always a no no. But, a good sense of humour magnetizes people towards you. So, if you can really crack some witty jokes that would force people to laugh hard, don’t think twice and go ahead. And, if you doubt your efficiency as a humorist do not lose your heart. You can start a conversation on any of the current topics with people around.

   4. Become a Doer & Not a Follower.
Out of 100 people in a party, 99 falls in the category of followers. But, if you really want to stand apart in a group you have to be the one in the category of doers. You can do anything from jumping on the dance floor first or starting some game.

   5. Let Everyone Know you are Leaving.
If you follow all the above mentioned things it would not be difficult to become the most wanted guy/girl in the party. Even if this has not happened, make sure everybody knows that you are leaving the party. Bid adieu to everyone in the party and don’t forget that wide smile.

And, if there is anything else that I missed mentioning over here, do leave a comment and let me know. I would love to win all the attention (but only positive) ;)

Daemonic Past Vs Angelic Present

Past Vs Present

Finding someone who says your past doesn’t bother me is easy but finding a partner who actually accepts you with your past is rare. At one point or the other, your past stands in front of your present and saving one from ill-effects of the other becomes almost impossible. Something similar happened recently and I was unable to convince a friend that PAST is gone and it does not really matter. But who bothers to listen!! (I hate people who assume things on their own and then act as if their decisions are based on your explanation.)

Can Sex & Menstruation Go Together?

She was home alone when he came to meet her & sort out some misunderstanding. She argued for long & burst into tears after a while. He grasped her tight in his arms and cuddled her till the moment she forgot they were fighting ever. Few moments passed and they were kissing each other passionately. Before he could go down on her, she just realized she was having her periods. Now, she was in a dilemma - to let him continue or stop him right there. A second passed & she blurted "I am having my periods. Let's stop it right here." Both of them were riding high but they could not get aboard because she was bleeding.

Save Your Marriage from Evil-Devil Divorce

“More marriages might survive if the partners realized that sometimes the better comes after the worse.” Doug Larson

But, do you think anyone has time & patience to wait for things to get better? Well, the answer is NO if you look at the numbers of divorces taking place across the world. For long years, I have heard “Marriages are made in heaven” but today the meaning seems to fade away. The numbers of divorces are taking a toll and I realized the convolution of this social issue when it happened to someone very close to my heart. 

Apparently, divorce appears as the easiest and most viable option to couples who are not having a smooth married life but its consequences can be really really detrimental. The condition is worse if some couple divorces after having kids. Definitely, watching parents separate is distressing for kids and they might not be able to handle it properly. So, if not for yourself, give a thought of improving your relation for your children.